How to treat your spouses??

Wanna know how to treat your spouses the right way??This is the blog that you should read.Hahaha...Nah..I'm not married yet and of course i am not an expert in these kind of things.But, as a christian.God teach me how to love others like He loves me.But of course compare our loves with God's love for us.Our's is just equals to 60% or 70% of love.God's love is always a 100% or even a 1000%.Yup, you heard me right.You know a lot of man think that when they marry they spouse's.They don't need to show that love and intimacy towards their spouse anymore.A lot of man make this big mistake.And of course it could lead to lots of arguements, disappointments, sadness and of course the worse part,DIVORCE!!! In my religion.We do not encourage divorction to happen.Coz God always gives you the right 1 to marry.Anyway, like most ppl say, money can't buy love and happiness.1st of all.You don't just treat your spouse really nice and lovely before the marriage.You have to continuesly treat them more loving and more caring each and every single day.You don't just touch and go.Marriage is a forever life commitment you know.Its not some kind of game to play.I mean giving gifts to your spouse's and giving love and intimacy is a totally different thing! Husbands, you don't go home late and expect your wives to understand why are you late without calling them or explaining it to them.She can't read your mind you know.Don't just scold her just becoz your stressed and stuff like that.Tell her why your stress la.And tell her what she needs to do la.Whether she needs to keep quiet or give you some quiet time or things like that.You do have a mouth right?Then use it la.And wives when your husbands came home late or something.Ask him gently and nicely la.Don't just when he comes home you shout at him like"Oiii!! where did you go this whole day ar??!!! no need to come home and sleep 1 ar??!! sleep outside la!!" i believe that there are some couples who do that.Shame on you!Or maybe when he looks down or upset.Give him a little bit of touch la.If not?? slap him on the face ar???Husbands, hug your wives once in a while.Coz they deserve it.By taking care of the household the children and even her own work.And last but not least.Husbands who do not know how to treat their wives.Buy her nice gifts once in a while.I mean on special occasions la of course.Then of course your wife will do the same back too.And er..man sometimes don't handle stress very well.They tend to beat their wives or even abuse their wives sometimes when their stress or they can't have what they want.You need to learn how to accept the facts.And learn how to handle your stress.Discuss it with your spouse or something.It totally helps a lot.You don't just blame your spouse's just becoz you did something wrong.Your mistakes are your own responsibilities.If you need some help.Ask your wife or talk to her.If you just beat her for no reason or get mad at her for no reason.How would she know what you want??And then you grow even more angrier.And then the last thing you know.Your wife leaves you just like that.Communitation is really really important ya know.Your like missing an oppurtunity to make this relationship more warm and lovely and more everlasting.Pls remember, money can't buy happiness and love.If you just buy things for your spouse's and not spending time with them at all, you don't expect them to be happy.It just strains the relationship more and more.And end up to a divorce.I guess this are just all my advice.My friends, when you get married.Pls becareful.Hahahaha! Especially to those newlyweds and to those that have problems with their marriage.Til the next time.I'm signing out!!


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